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The True Gift of Winter

By Kari Smith

As the days grow shorter and the first real cold settles in, something quietly magical begins to happen. The world outside slows down, the light turns softer, and — whether we plan it or not — our attention turns inward, toward home, toward the people who matter most.

That is the true gift of winter: it gives us permission to gather.

In a year that has asked so much of all of us (too many deadlines, too many screens, too many miles between the people we love), the holiday season arrives like a long exhale. It reminds us that success is not measured only by what we accomplish alone, but by what we nurture together. A warm house filled with laughter. A table set a little unevenly because everyone squeezed in one more chair. The smell of cinnamon and pine mingling with the sound of voices telling the same stories they told last year — and the year before that — because some things are worth repeating.

Family, however we define it, is the original safe harbor. It is the place where we are known beyond highlight reels. Winter, with its early nights and its quiet mornings under heavy blankets, nudges us back to that harbor. It says: light the candles, turn the music up, leave the phones in another room for a while. The emails will still be there tomorrow. The people in your living room might not be.

This year, more than most, I find myself grateful for the small rituals that stitch us together. The mismatched ornaments that still make it onto the tree because a child made them in second grade. The recipe card in my grandmother’s handwriting that gets flour-dusted every December. The way my father still insists on stringing the outdoor lights himself, even though half the strand blinks in rebellious Morse code. These are not grand gestures; they are the quiet grammar of love.

So as we move into this season of celebration — whatever traditions you keep — I invite you to lean in. Make the extra pie. Stay for one more cup of coffee. Let the dishes wait. Tell the long version of the story, the one everyone claims they’ve heard a hundred times, because someday someone will wish they could hear it just once more.

Winter is not merely a season to endure; it is a season to remember who we are when the noise fades and the lights are low. It is the time when family — blood or chosen — becomes the brightest thing in the room.

From our home to yours, may your days be warm, your hearts be full, and your holidays be rich with the kind of moments that turn into memories you’ll carry long after the last decoration is packed away.